I'm a guy, and I can't know how you feel ...and that is absolutely correct, I don't know.

If I hear of, or see an injustice, I often get upset.  Some of you may get more upset if it happens to you, than if an injustice is done to another person.  Often I do better if it's done to me, than if it's done to someone I know ...but it's always better if this kind of grief doesn't happen at all.  I make mistakes all the time, but I just know that if I commit a huge injustice against another, I feel lousy a long time, particularly if there's little I can do to reconcile it.